Still standing at the crossroads Can we just be honest for a second? Because I feel like a lot of us are walking around in a place where you really don’t know what God wants you to do. Carrying this quiet, heavy thing, this feeling of just not knowing. Not knowing which direction to go,…
Children are the Greatest Work: Why Parenting is Ministry
In my late 20s, while raising children and trying to figure out life, I felt overwhelmed, lost, and confused. Not because of my children, but because I was not where I thought I would be. I thought success meant becoming a physical therapist, killing it with my husband and children. Instead, here I was at…
Are You Made New or Bound by the Past?
I was talking with my mom recently, pouring out my feelings of inadequacy, overwhelmed by the thought that I just didn’t have what it takes to do the things I’ve dreamed of doing. Somewhere in my rambling, she stopped me and said something that pierced me to my core: That question quickened me. It wasn’t…
Why is the First Step So Hard?
Have you ever noticed that the hardest part of any task is simply starting? I’ve spent countless moments observing myself, trying to understand why that first step feels like the weight of the world. I’ve discovered that I’m just a girl who doesn’t like routine. I thrive on flexibility, going with the flow, and acting…
The Challenges of Adult Friendships
As I sit down to write this, I find myself feeling vulnerable- a sensation that doesn’t sit easily with me. Yet, I recognize how important it is to share. As an adult, maintaining friendships is one of the hardest relationships ever. I see people who have been friends for 20-plus years, and I’m not going…
What Marriage Taught Me in 9 Years
As my husband and I celebrate our ninth anniversary this month, I can confidently say that this journey has been nothing short of a testament to God’s work in our lives. Marriage, for us, has been a journey of sanctification- a process where God has continually cleansed us, molded us, and created in us new…
Letting Go of Good for God’s Greater: A Journey of Faith and Trust
I recently listened to a podcast by Tim Ross, and his words struck a chord with me: “Not everything God tells you to let go of is bad. Sometimes you have to let go of good for God. And sometimes you have to let go of what God has given you so that you can…
Studying the Bible: A Beginner’s Guide
Studying the Bible is a deeply enriching experience that can provide guidance, wisdom, and spiritual nourishment. Whether you’re a seasoned believer or just coming into the faith, diving into the Scriptures offers a profound opportunity for growth and understanding. Diving into the Scriptures offers true identity. We’ll explore practical tips and strategies to help you…
Insight from the Marriage Conference: Redefining and Strengthen
Discovering a New Perspective This past Saturday was a pivotal moment in my marriage journey as my husband and I attended a marriage conference https://xomarriage.com/conferences/?gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI8MW114L4hQMVP1FHAR0R9gWoEAAYASAAEgKTcPD_BwE. Led by esteemed speakers Dan Lian, Nona Jones, and Ryan Leak, the event offered fresh perspective insights on marriage expectations. Reevaluating Expectations: Lessons from Dan Lian Dan Lian’s session centered…
Extending Mother’s Grace: Cultivating Understanding and Compassion
Cultivating Understanding So I have a question! Should adult daughters and sons extend grace to their mothers? While driving, I heard a quiet still voice say, “Give your mother grace.” My husband and I often let our children stay overnight at their grandmother’s, whom they affectionately call “Yaya.” This reminder struck me deeply, especially when…